Have you put out your Parent Advent Calendar yet?
I heard that term on a local radio station yesterday. They were talking about back to school time! Yahoo!
Our kids go to a charter school, and the school has been sending me lots of emails lately. The emails said stuff like “Back to School” and “School Supply Lists” and other things like that. One one hand, I’m sad summer is almost over. On the other hand, with three of my four kids not here, there will be less mud around here. At least from 8am-3pm.
I’m pretty excited about that.
What I’m not excited about is back to school shopping. It makes me feel like a deflated balloon.
There are three reasons back to school shopping is so painful:
- It takes all my money.
- There are so many other people doing the same thing.
- My kids are like waaahhh I don’t want that.
And depending on how many kids you have, you get to multiply that pain. Lucky you. This year I get to multiply it by three. Lucky me.
This year, I’m determined not to let the Back to School Shopping get to me. I will conquer it! I’ve made a banner, put on war paint, and I’m going to fight for what’s mine!
Here are some ways to make back to school shopping less painful. I’d love to hear your ideas too!
Try consignment stores.
Many consignment stores have specific standards so you know they have good stock. But they’re also cheaper than retail. Win-win! Check out what I got (6 pieces) yesterday for less than $20 at an Eastern Idaho consignment store Once Upon a Child:
Use Amazon to comparison shop.
I’ve checked a few online stores and wasn’t super excited about the styles or prices. I did some comparison shopping on Amazon. I love that I can do it at home and set a price range. The down side is your kid can’t try them on.
Size 10 boy jeans
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Go by yourself or with one kid at a time.
My boys don’t care what they wear and are ok with me picking stuff out. So I just don’t bring them. My daughter does care, so I bring her. It made things so much easier.
Give your kid a dollar limit and let them choose.
I’ll be doing this when my kids are older, but several of my friends with teenagers do this. They love the power to choose, and they love to be unique to themselves. This is a totally genius idea!
Put it in your yearly budget.
It seems like back to school shopping always creeps up on us. But it’s like taxes–you can always count on them happening. So as you write up your yearly budget, be sure to include a little each month for back to school shopping. That way it doesn’t drain all your funds in August.
Do half now and half later.
I am not a marathon shopper. Which is why I love Walmart’s free grocery pick up. Oh the energy and time it saves! When it comes to buying school supplies, I have the list with me but my mind whirls with how much stuff is on there. Plus the cost adds up quick. So I like to spread it out. I call it sanity shopping.
It’s ok to keep shopping after school starts.
Two years ago, for some reason I was in a real funk when school started. I couldn’t get myself in gear. So my kids went to school with only a portion of their supplies. And you know what? They survived. It was totally fine. It took me another week or two to get the rest of the supplies. And nobody died. So if you’re feeling stress because of a deadline, don’t. Relax and just go with the flow.